Whats bothering you right now?

[trailrider894]

Sick as Funk.... I caught a bug on an FTX, sleeping near that many guys in this freezing cold weather. Been sick for days and its only gettin worse. Plus my lady friend has dropped off the boat, so i'm huntin again.

[honda400ex2003]

not sure if i should try to make a bit of a move on valentines day or not.

have an idea- let me know what you think:

i want to get my lady friend a necklace;( i dont have her address or anything though- side note to be discussed later)

anyway heres my idea- buy her a necklace and take a video of me with it, saying "will you be my valentine?" and send her the video. later ask for her address and send it if she says yes.

idk though... that was the best i have thought of so far and think it would be nice.

thought of sending some flowers too but the address thing causes a problem there too. thats not as original as the necklace and video either.

i did think about asking her sister if she could get it for me but im running out of time for that.

im not sure if its the time yet, we have alot of school left for the semester, theres a good list of reasons why i shouldnt, but only one that i should. i think it might be time to go for it and see what happens.

i think that this might be my chance to see if she is truly interested still or if texting back and forth for the past couple of months is just that... texting among 2 friends in the friend zone.

thoughts?

i did quite well for a long time with not thinking about her alot (well not talking about it anyway, i still think about her all the time) and such so i think that this might be the opportunity.

i think it would be a nice way to show her i care.

i just decided that i might want to do something like this today after not planning on doing anything at all.

too much?

steve

[ben300]

Originally posted by honda400ex2003
not sure if i should try to make a bit of a move on valentines day or not.

have an idea- let me know what you think:

i want to get my lady friend a necklace;( i dont have her address or anything though- side note to be discussed later)

anyway heres my idea- buy her a necklace and take a video of me with it, saying "will you be my valentine?" and send her the video. later ask for her address and send it if she says yes.

idk though... that was the best i have thought of so far and think it would be nice.

thought of sending some flowers too but the address thing causes a problem there too. thats not as original as the necklace and video either.

i did think about asking her sister if she could get it for me but im running out of time for that.

im not sure if its the time yet, we have alot of school left for the semester, theres a good list of reasons why i shouldnt, but only one that i should. i think it might be time to go for it and see what happens.

i think that this might be my chance to see if she is truly interested still or if texting back and forth for the past couple of months is just that... texting among 2 friends in the friend zone.

thoughts?

i did quite well for a long time with not thinking about her alot (well not talking about it anyway, i still think about her all the time) and such so i think that this might be the opportunity.

i think it would be a nice way to show her i care.

i just decided that i might want to do something like this today after not planning on doing anything at all.

too much?

steve

dude, no offense, but thats a terrible idea!

lets be honest here, buying a girl a necklace of anysort is something you do when you to have spent an ammount of commited time with each other...not texting back and forth for a couple of months......thats a showing of affection that i doubt neither of you have shown each other....from the sounds of it, you've never even kissed this girl, or hardly seen her in person, right?


now on to the hard part of this.....if a) you dont know her address, and b) you dont know if your two are more than just friends, then its time to **** or get off the pot yo....if you like this girl...tell her..let her know...find out if she likes you back...

you keep on dancing around this situation...do yourself a favor, and just be straight forward man. chicks dont like guys that are unsure, or are affraid...have some confidence, and ask her and find out.......if she says no, well then you know, and you didnt waste to much time or money...


just send her flowers, with one of htose pre wrote out card that you can get with the flowers....it shows your thinking of her, wihtout being WAY over the top with sending a necklace

[honda400ex2003]

you are right, im not going to do that.

flowers or a simple happy valentines day text should do the trick.

steve

[01boneless]

just send her a card..... valintines day TEXT is alful chessy..imo

[honda400ex2003]

Lol flowers will probably be getting sent at some point, i know texting is lame... she prefers texts over phone calls so whatever i guess.

Steve

[trailrider894]

Valentines day will be a lonely one for me!!! Probably will just do PT most of the day and then fly or drive to my rents house.

[crlt250r]

Buying mine dinner, then going home and watching porn..... Aunt Flo is in town..... LMAO

[atvrider23054]

Originally posted by ben300
dude, no offense, but thats a terrible idea!

lets be honest here, buying a girl a necklace of anysort is something you do when you to have spent an ammount of commited time with each other...not texting back and forth for a couple of months......thats a showing of affection that i doubt neither of you have shown each other....from the sounds of it, you've never even kissed this girl, or hardly seen her in person, right?


now on to the hard part of this.....if a) you dont know her address, and b) you dont know if your two are more than just friends, then its time to **** or get off the pot yo....if you like this girl...tell her..let her know...find out if she likes you back...

you keep on dancing around this situation...do yourself a favor, and just be straight forward man. chicks dont like guys that are unsure, or are affraid...have some confidence, and ask her and find out.......if she says no, well then you know, and you didnt waste to much time or money...


just send her flowers, with one of htose pre wrote out card that you can get with the flowers....it shows your thinking of her, wihtout being WAY over the top with sending a necklace

haha very well said. Its a new age, I take girls out to dinner after the hammers laid!

[ben300]

Originally posted by atvrider23054
haha very well said. Its a new age, I take girls out to dinner after the hammers laid!

haha, ive done that on more than a few occasions....


if you start knocking boots right away and then they wanna date too...that sometimes works out and sometimes it dont