when i send a message on AIM to anyone it will pause when i push send for about 6 secs and then send the message,does anyone know what i can do to stop this problem and get it fixed.ive been dealing with it for about 11 months and im geting fed up with it and anthor thing when i direct connect with some1 to share a file or send pics or anything it seems like the problem goes away but then gos back to the problem after we close out.I really need help and would appreciate any info or help and CHUCKED has been helping me out with it alot and i appreciate that.