Just got back from the hospital with the worst news [Archive]

Guy400

08-12-2005, 07:33 PM

My wife was supposed to be 16 weeks pregnant this week. She was getting some cramping so we decided to go to the hospital this evening. We were told it's a 12 week fetus with no heartbeat. We lost our baby:( It almost seems not real. A month ago we were listening to the heart beat on an ultrasound. This is the absolute saddest day of our lives.

theTman

08-12-2005, 07:34 PM

:( sorry for your loss

Pappy

08-12-2005, 07:35 PM

damn guy, that is bad news. any idea of why or the cause or just nature taking its course?

please express my deepest sympathy to your wife and stay strong for her, she will need you more then every.

08-12-2005, 07:35 PM

im soo sorry about ur loss i hope u and ur wife can get through this alright :ermm:

Kyle_Racer_31

08-12-2005, 07:36 PM

Sorry man....My Prays go out to You and ur Wife :(

HondaEXrider22

08-12-2005, 07:37 PM

Originally posted by Kyle_Racer_31
Sorry man....My Prays go out to You and ur Wife :(

Me two man my uncle just lost 2 unborn children

MXEDUP337

08-12-2005, 07:39 PM

Your on the prayer list tonight...God does everything for a reason man...just put your trust in him.

spincr4hire

08-12-2005, 07:43 PM

sorry to hear that man:(

08-12-2005, 08:05 PM

Sorry to hear that guy... Things happen for a reason, dont stop trying..

2004exrider

08-12-2005, 08:35 PM

sorry man

busch light

08-12-2005, 08:40 PM

Sorry man:(

red

08-12-2005, 08:50 PM

very sorry to hear of your loss:(

08-12-2005, 08:52 PM

sorry for you man

sam the brave

08-12-2005, 08:54 PM

sucks man my cousain had it happen to his wife 4 times
i am sorry for the loss

reddeisel

08-12-2005, 09:08 PM

my borther and sister -n- law jusy experienced the same thing just think though your baby had a heartbeat so it was alive now you have a bueatiful baby waiting for you to come home, up in heaven, my deepest sympathy.

APK400exRacer

08-12-2005, 09:09 PM

Damn "guy" dont give up hope man. Sorry to hear that man. Deffinately on the prayer list. Your wife will need you more than ever now.:(

MrP

08-12-2005, 09:19 PM

You are in our prayers buddy.

My wife and I are expecting our little man any day now and I cant imagine what you are going through.

initall

08-12-2005, 09:26 PM

I am sorry for your loss.

I really know how it is.

My deepest sympothies are with your wife and you.

JOEX

08-12-2005, 09:37 PM

So sorry for your loss Guy:(

Atkins

08-12-2005, 10:13 PM

I am so sorry for you, my deepest condolences to you and your wife. :( Dont give up hope man, next time it will work out and it will be beautiful.

JRP

08-12-2005, 10:17 PM

hey man im sorry about that. one of my parents friends lost 3 babie in a row. and then she finally got pregnant again and they had a babie but it had downsyndrome. so im sorry for your loss.

450r51

08-12-2005, 10:40 PM

this happened three times before i was born. so just dont give up.

Punk'd

08-12-2005, 10:53 PM

Man im truely sorry to hear that.. Life just sucks sometimes you and your wife will be in my prayers.. Be with your wife im sure she really needs you right now.. and again.. sorry to hear that:(

TheFontMaster

08-12-2005, 11:00 PM

I'm sorry to hear about that, one of the teachers here lost her baby 8 months in this past year. I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like to go through that. You'll be in my prayrs tonight. :(

SGA

08-12-2005, 11:54 PM

Im sorry for you and your wife Guy. Be their for your wife, shes gonna need you alot right now .

popo

08-13-2005, 03:40 AM

Guy, I'm also sorry to hear about your loss.

I've been thru your pains 4 times. Time heals and the best thing is to not blame yourself's and to look forward on trying again.

Like SGA said, your wife will need allot of support. She'll go thru some up's and down's over the years. My wife still does after the 1st 5 years ago.

Out of all the sadness me and my wife suffered, We have two boys with the youngest being 4 weeks old. It does get better!

Take Care

Guy400

08-13-2005, 05:31 AM

Thank you all for the thoughts and prayers. Later on last night my wife started bleeding heavily so we had to return to the hospital where they performed the DNC. They'll be performing a chromosome test to see if they can find out any why's or what's. My wife's pregnancy with our 15 month old girl was flawless so this hit us pretty much out of the blue. Again, thanks to you all...

jdwxv3

08-13-2005, 05:42 AM

Sorry to hear that guy. My mom and wife are both RN's and work in OB. Not to down play your loss.....it is tragic and very sad, but belive it or not it is fairly common. If the baby passed away it was probaly for a good reason such as intelectual or physical impairment. Best advice is to just try again, if it is ment to be you will have a little squirt running around in a year or so! Just keep your head up and keep on chuggin. Good luck, and sorry to hear about your loss
:(

MOFO

08-13-2005, 06:24 AM

Wow.... Guy I am very sorry to hear this! :(

Tommy 17

08-13-2005, 08:02 AM

Originally posted by MOFO
Wow.... Guy I am very sorry to hear this! :(

same here... sorry guy

Woodsrider

08-14-2005, 09:52 AM

Our deepest sympathies to you and your wife. you will both be in our prayers.

Syrus

08-14-2005, 10:00 AM

Originally posted by Guy400
My wife was supposed to be 16 weeks pregnant this week. She was getting some cramping so we decided to go to the hospital this evening. We were told it's a 12 week fetus with no heartbeat. We lost our baby:( It almost seems not real. A month ago we were listening to the heart beat on an ultrasound. This is the absolute saddest day of our lives.

Thats the most terrible thing that can happen to a family, its no different then loosing a child at any age. My mom had the samething happen, i would have had a brother but he didnt seem to wanna make it, must have known i was in the family :ermm: But its a common thing to happen dude, so just take sometime and dont give up. Hopefully your dreams come soon. Sorry for the loss pal.

LTandRaptorider

08-14-2005, 11:13 AM

very sorry to hear that. :(

MXcutie

08-14-2005, 11:41 AM

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss! Just keep on trying you'll get another one!

I only have about 6 weeks left till our little one is here and its taking forever

wvspeedfreak

08-14-2005, 12:25 PM

Sorry to hear it Guy.My wife and I went through this about 2 1/2 years ago.She was 14 weeks along.Hang in there man,I know it is hard to understand but things like this happen for a reason.

quadfamily

08-14-2005, 01:02 PM

Oh Man, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Nature works in strange any mysterious ways. I'm sure you'll find out some interesting things from the tests they're doing. Just try not to let yourself or your wife get too depressed over it and keep in mind you're still young and can try this quite a few more times. You already know the positive side of it with your precious little girl so you know it's worth it! God bless you both!

spudss

08-14-2005, 01:20 PM

Sorry to here that..

My Wife and I went through the same thing... It was a very hard thing to deal with.. Comfort your wife and let her know it isnt anyones fault.. We all pray for healing in your family...

MX300ex

08-14-2005, 01:22 PM

omfg that sucks ***...im so sorry to hear that

Hondadudeehhhh

08-14-2005, 02:54 PM

guy, my sister in law lost a child about 3 years ago and it was very hard on her and my brother. A couple months later she was pregnant again with my 3rd nephew who had to problems and is one of the funniest 3 year olds ive ever seen. Just keep trying buddy

bryan.young1

08-14-2005, 03:02 PM

i had a very good friend and his wife go through the same thing, there is nothing any body can say that is enough. just please stay strong for eachother and know that "this to shall pass" you will never forget but you will be able to carry on.

so very sorry.

bryan